I learn this the hard way! years ago i loved someone and although i've felt signs that we're not meant to be, i forced it and kept on loving him.. God probably had tried everything to let me know not to - i mean, i often dream of myself being hurt by this guy and I'd cry a lot when i woke up because of pity for myself. it's like watching myself in a movie! But I didn't listen. And I wasted all my time! I just realize now because he just got married and I am in love with someone. And with this guy right now, it's like God's just giving everything to me. It's crazy! I am so happy right now..